My friends have been a blessing… I have… three, four friends in particular who have been... a great help for me... My family, well, words are unnecessary. Before the accident, my family and I did not have a good relationship... we fought all the time... I was very isolated from my family. But then things changed from the moment I was in the hospital... in this situation... we have become really close... that's a good thing. With my friends likewise. Both those who were my friends before and the ones now... I have always been with the same and they have been there for me always, thank God (008.1.6.1-3). This note reflects the significance that relationships with other people have for adolescents and young adults who have suffered a spinal cord injury. It becomes evident in it that Support is defined as the permanent and continuous accompaniment of the participants by others, especially the family, friends, partner, healthcare workers and others who are undergoing their same condition and also the spiritual accompaniment provided by the belief in a Superior Being. For this reason, the participants feel grateful. Because with the help from their family members: parents, siblings, significant other and their friends they have been able to share and go through the whole rehabilitation process, which motivates them to continue moving forward with their condition. Also, they feel committed to giving help and support to other people with disabilities, making use of their own experiences throughout the rehabilitation process that contributed to their own improvement. However, they may also feel Abandonment on the part of their loved ones, their partners, their friends and those who used to be around them and that with time stopped sharing with them. Participants say that people in general have an erroneous concept of what a disability is and that they tag disabled people just because of their condition, without caring about their needs. This generates feelings of fear and isolation which makes the interaction and relation with those around them more difficult.

Withstanding the burden of disability

Every day it is the same routine. Wake up at 8, have breakfast, take a bath and do, and watch TV, read. It is 12, have lunch, have a snack, talk to the family, arrive at 7 in the evening, watch soap operas and then go to bed. Every day was exactly the same, so, it becomes really, really... dull (008.1.4.2). In this note the significance that the burden caused by the condition of disability has for people who suffer it can be appreciated in what is denominated as Rejection to hospitalization. Adolescents and young adults with spinal cord injury reprove the monotony in the healthcare services and in the hospital routines that happen in all the activities of daily life. They feel there is a loss of privacy and of the autonomy that is caused by the dependence to healthcare workers and institutional rules. This situation generates discomfort because it forces people with disabilities to remain in unfamiliar places, where on occasion the food is not to their liking and the rejection to it causes further delays in the process of recovery and weight loss. Remaining in the hospital setting, and being surrounded by people who consider themselves "sick" causes a deterioration of the emotional state, which further delays the process of recovery.

Another meaning that acquires importance in this category is the awareness of the severity of the lesion. The presence of symptoms like intense pain in the affected zone, the loss of mobility, as well as the presence of sensibility on the upper extremities and/or lower extremities and the loss of response to external stimuli constitute a signal that indicates a severe compromise of the spinal cord. This situation is difficult to accept, it causes feelings of frustration and depression, especially when disabled people realize that they will not be able to achieve the objectives set for their rehabilitation. It is at that moment that feelings of hopelessness make their appearance, when the person realizes that his or her condition of disability is not going to improve, and they begin to lose interest in their rehabilitation process and they become demotivated to overcome the difficulties to be able to continue on with their lives.

The subcategory of withstanding a difficult experience is the meaning that the participants with a disability give to the change in their lifestyles due to the spinal cord lesion. For some of the participants it is a very difficult situation to go through because they experience a sense of guilt due to the condition they have. This change in lifestyle is very drastic and sudden since they feel now unable to perform what used to be their normal routines. Some of the participants manifested that as a consequence of their injury they had at times difficulties to control their emotions, they assumed attitudes of rebellion and negativity, to the point of stopping talking for a long time with their loves ones and that they began assuming negative behaviors with which they pretended to call the attention of those around them.

'Continue doing your major, yes, well, I do not see, the limitation has to do with some mobility and so, but, in the end that does not affect, let's say, doesn't affect something… how can I say it… well… well that suddenly my career depended on my mobility. If I had been a soccer player or something like that, well, maybe then (laughter), but no, no. I study Law and I do not see any problems to continue with my major (007.1.10.1). In this note the significance of adapting to the new condition can be appreciated. Two subcategories were identified in this category, which were denominated as follows: Regaining control over the body and Transformation of life when there is a spinal cord lesion.

Regaining control over the body. In this subcategory some of the participants experiment new sensations, they recover the mobility and sensibility of their injured extremities partially or totally as well as they recover the control over their urinary and fecal elimination, important aspects that allow disabled people to recover their independence. Other participants do not have this possibility but they learn to perform their daily activities in a different way, which in turn allows them to recover the control over their body and prevent complications. The experiences lived as a consequence of the spinal cord lesion, and the changes in habits and daily routines, which had to take place after the event, force disabled people to care after their body and watch over it in a permanent and conscious way. This with the purpose of avoiding the appearance of complications like pressure ulcers, urinary infections, among others.

Transformation of life after a spinal cord injury. The changes that take place in the body and the changes in corporality due to the spinal cord lesion "Transform the life" of the people who suffer these lesions. They begin to constantly seek their physical and personal independence, which are important factors that help them to overcome their condition. Some of the participants recognize the value of being alive after such a catastrophic event like the one they have faced. This motivates them to continue and reflect on the way in which they were leading their lives before the lesion.

DISCUSSION

The adolescence is a stage in which people's bodies undergo physical changes and the self-image and interests from childhood also change. During this time peer gatherings take precedence over other things and becoming independent from parents, maintaining social relationships, privacy and intimacy also become very important to reaffirm identity.⁷ Both adolescents and young adults with spinal cord injuries experiment changes in their body and corporality that cause dependence from other people, equipment and other additions, which transforms their self-image due to the consequences of their lesions.

One of the adaptation modes described by Roy (2009)⁸ in her conceptual Model is the mode of self-concept. It is defined as the group of beliefs and feelings that people have of themselves thanks to their self-perception and the one they acquire from the people around them. According to Roy, the self-concept has two components: the physical self, which includes the corporal sensations and body image, the personal self that is composed by the ethical, moral and spiritual self, the ideal self that is associated with the project of life and the self-consistency, meaning the organized ideas that surround the self. In adolescents and young adults the consequences of a spinal cord lesion alter the self-concept when these components are modified. There is a change in the perception and functionality of the body, which in turn alters the self-image people have and their social image. Society considers that young people must be strong and healthy and the people who have a condition of disability are considered sick.⁸

Due to the aftereffects of a spinal cord injury people lose the capacity to execute activities of daily living and they face an increase in the predisposition to have complications, such as pressure ulcers, urinary tract infections, spasticity, hyperesthesia, psychological stress and chronic pain.⁹ For this reason both adolescents and young adults perceive themselves as weak and highly susceptible to suffering diseases that force them to remain hospitalized for prolonged periods of time and to be isolated from their family and friends. These results concur with the ones found in the literature where the high incidence of complications derived from the disabled condition can be evidenced.¹ The studies done by Dewis¹⁰ and Moreno et al., ¹¹ about the significance that living with such a condition has for people with a spinal cord lesion underline the impact of the body changes and the need these people have of constructing a new normality.  

One of the most influential aspects during the process of adaptation to the condition of disability in both adolescents and young adults is the support of the family, friends and partner, especially during the acute stage of the lesion. This matches with the findings made by Gonzalez,³ who maintains that when disabled people find themselves forced to deal with the reality of the consequences produced by the lesion, the family support and the faith in God pushes them to change their attitude towards the process of rehabilitation.

In this study participants described the strategies that are used by their family members to help them, and among some of them it is important to underline the strategies of motivation and demand in the execution of daily activities only to the extent of their capabilities. It is also important to underline the commitment of caregivers to the process of rehabilitation and the fact that some of them abandoned the role they were previously performing to undertake the one of caregiver. This situation leads adolescents to re-discover their family and it awakens in them feelings of gratefulness that motivate them to continue moving forward so that they can return in the future all the efforts done by their family. There is no perception of abandonment on the part of the parents.¹³

For adolescents and young adults the support of a partner also becomes important. These partners also have to adapt to the new condition, tolerate the emotional changes, provide care and company and this allows disabled people to keep moving forward. In some cases disabled people form strong attachments to their partners and they are able to reach the married state. However, these interrelationships can sometimes be contradictory because in time some family members, friends and even partners can distance themselves from the person due to exhaustion and in the case of friends, due to the impossibility for people to share in the same activities that they used to perform before the lesion. This situation becomes very hard to face, it awakens feelings of abandonment and even social isolation.¹⁴

The hardship of maintaining relationships with loved ones and friends leads disabled people to question the reason for their existence, but at the same time, they find a sense to their new lives. Adolescents and young adults must undertake the burden of confronting a new reality, of distancing themselves from their friends and from the activities they used to perform before the lesion. It is important to stress that in this situation the support from other people in a condition of disability, of the healthcare professionals, family members and the faith in God become fundamental to move forward. In those people who are facing their same condition, disabled people perceive the necessary strength and motivation to overcome all difficulties and achieve the results that at some point they considered impossible. These results became evident during the study performed by Moreno et a.l, ¹¹ in people who suffer from paraplegia caused by a spinal cord injury.

With time, both adolescents and young adults become adapted to their disabled condition. This process is achieved when they learn to know their bodies and the new changes, they recognize the new sensations, they learn a new form of mobilizing themselves and learn to control their bodies and the process of elimination. This permits them to recover a sense of independence which was lost as a consequence of the lesion. Likewise, they become aware of the fact that they need to take care of their bodies to keep them in optimal conditions to prevent complications, which did not matter much before the injury. It is important to stress that the participants become able to surpass the difficulties and project themselves towards the future when they recognize the value of being alive, when they reflect upon their earlier lives and visualize the possibilities for improvement, when they become persistent in challenging their limitations, they maintain a sense of hope for their recovery and they construct a new life project taking their disability into account. These results concur with the ones found by Dornelles et al.,¹⁴ who found that the changes that take place over the body and corporality of a disabled person acquire meaning when they allow a new life to start with the particular condition.

No information was found in the present study to back up the theory that young people lose their will to live and try to end their lives due to the loss of self-esteem and self-trust. On the contrary, the experience of having to live with a spinal cord injury changes their lives and with time they discover new opportunities, they solidify their lives' projects through study, sports activities and work life and they also strengthen their relationships with their nuclear family.

Lastly, the described results show the importance of the nursing care in the process of adaptation in adolescents who have a condition of disability. Some of the interventions that promote adaptation and that must be considered both during the hospitalization period and also after discharge are: the physical care, the development of anticipatory guides, educational programs and counseling both for patients and their families.^8,15 These interventions seek to help adolescents to recognize and acknowledge the changes that have taken place in their bodies and to take advantage of the moments of care during the processes of personal hygiene, skin care, elimination, positional changes, movement, among others, so that they can really learn to use their residual capacities and so that they actively participate in the development of new abilities, which will allow them to obtain better results in the rehabilitation process.^16,17

In the same way, with the development of guides based on evidence and the development of educational programs, it is the objective to have disabled people learn about the impact of the aftereffects of their lesion so that they can prevent some of the most frequent complications, like: pressure ulcers, urinary infections, constipation, contractures and deformities, among others.^18,19 The availability of counseling will also help these people to face their situation if they can count with the support of a professional that can lead them to clarify their doubts regarding their health state, the management of the equipment and other additions, among other things.^20,21 It is essential to design instruments that allow the identification of the meanings given by adolescents to a spinal cord injury during the different stages of hospitalization and discharge and also to develop studies to standardize the nursing interventions that aim at promoting the adaptation to this condition.^22,23

As a conclusion to this study, the meanings that adolescents and young adults give to their spinal cord injuries represent the changes in the body and corporality from the participants' perspective and they constitute a valuable asset to improve the nursing care given to the patients with spinal cord lesions during the process of hospitalization and for the care at home. The latter constitutes an input that must be taken into account when assessing people and elaborating care plans. Likewise, it is advisable to develop nursing interventions that seek to promote the adaptation of the people with a disability. Some of the interventions that promote this adaptation process are: physical care, the design of anticipatory guidelines, programs of health education and counseling programs that are directed towards both the adolescents and their caregivers, which have as a purpose to prevent the appearance of complications and help them to adapt to their condition as they understand the functioning of their body, which has changed and develop the necessary skills to take care of themselves. Therein lies the importance of involving the nursing professionals in the rehabilitation interdisciplinary team, not only during the phase of hospitalization, but also after the discharge, through the consult of nursing. It also becomes important to look further into this subject in the different areas of professional formation - teaching, since it is a little explored field that will allow to discover and plan new strategies of care for the people with disabilities.

Acknowledgements. To the Archangels Foundation in Bogotá - Colombia, for the support received during the development of this project.

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